Cosmetic Surgery and Your Marriage: Love the One You're With!

In today’s over-exposure to celebrity trends, it's easy to place these figures as our appearance standard. When a husband looks at an actress on the cover of a magazine, he may unknowingly be placing a burden on his spouse to attempt to match the actress’ "beauty". But the problem is that this is not possible. Even after the years of personal trainers and hours of make-up, photo-shopping is frequently used to remove each and every minor blemish from the actress. The resulting image is an object that does not exist outside of the digital form. With many spouses determined to meet this impossible standard, they frequently turn to plastic surgery as a means to inch closer to their vision of  perfection.

The problems with resorting to cosmetic surgery are numerous; the most obvious being that the procedures are expensive and can put middle-class couples deep into debt after only one procedure. Additionally, the surgeries rarely result in the exact appearance that the woman desires and can cause a devastating chain-reaction involving additional surgeries to either correct the doctor's mistake or attempt to get closer to the image that the woman desired. What are the alternatives to plastic surgery? Making your spouse understand that you love them for the way they are!

If your wife is contemplating plastic surgery you must identify the source of her unhappiness. Shower  her with compliments, make date nights a priority, and continuously show her that she is the most beautiful woman in your world! If she is persistent in her desire to go under the knife, it may be necessary to show her images of plastic surgeries gone wrong and hope that she realizes that she should not risk her current beauty on a high-risk gamble. Proper information can shine the light of logic on this highly emotional subject.

In the end, many marriage disputes concerning plastic surgery can be avoided by providing unconditional love, acceptance, and compliments to your significant other. So turn those eyes away from that magazine cover and focus them on the woman you promised your life to!

Sources:

http://www.nydailynews.com/entertainment/gossip/photoshop-attacks-celebs-digitally-nipped-tucked-gallery-1.28061

http://www.plasticcelebritysurgery.com/2011/10/plastic-surgery-horror-stories-cosmetic.html

http://www.yourlovetips.com/how-to-make-your-wife-feel-attractive/